(40 ch-3 loops), Row 2: With Color B, ch 3 (or CSDC), sc in the next ch-3 loop, *ch 3, dc in the same ch-3 loop, sc in the next ch-3 loop. It’s not boring and looks pretty easy. Additionally, the even number means that the 2nd round of colors would have the ends on the wrong side for picking up. I’m not aware of a standard toddler size blanket – I’d probably just make the throw/afghan size. Just because people like wearing different things from you doesn't make their taste any less valid. I got the feeling that a good proportion of women still revel in the standard concept of man and are unable to accept the fact that sex and sexuality is a continuum and therefore what people like to wear is as well. King (110″ x 100″) – 14,100 yds; Ch 422; 225 Rows  (140 ch-3 loops). I think it is mostly the sheep in a herd notion that Im trying to dispell. In addition, according to the American Academy of Pediatrics, babies aren’t supposed to sleep unsupervised with a blanket until they are 12 months old – so since mom or dad (or grandma, babysitter, etc) are right there, if baby does get frustrated while playing with it, it will be sorted quickly enough. that's why I think it's a joke when men try to dress according to a trend (I think trends are silly anyway because many people who don't look good in them and it isn't authentic to who they are, will try them out). Glad you enjoyed reading this. Looking forward to making the matching newborn hat. My first contact with a man-skirt happened not too long ago when I was taking a nature hike with my family. I don't see how this is relevant. There are other ways to be a "worthy man" besides being a super-athlete, or being interested in sports, just like there's more to being a woman than just physical beauty. And I thought THAT was silly. I think some guys really pull off pink- still trying to get my husband in a pink polo :)) Donald Trump rocks a pink tie often! Would I be able to use a DC chainless foundation? Like a woman might not wear short hair, jeans and oxfords, (in theory "men's shoes", but now gender neutral, as almost everything in male fashion), not to look like a man or crossdress, but to be comfortable or for style, the same should be true for men who wear make up and/or, long hair, nail polish, skirts, boatnecks and if they like, why not, heels. You are nice everall but here ""Maybe we SHOULD not judge people", then you conclude with my "use of the word should...is bothersome". Only regret... NONE, why should a guy "not wear any article of clothing that encourages other guys to accidentally ogle and drool over them"?? Is there a way to make a size inbetween the baby size and the throw? I’m so glad you enjoyed it! Required fields are marked *. They had the confidence to show their bodies, and to be playful.”, — Martine Rose, Mens Fashion-wear Designer. Being raised by a Jewish mom who saw to it that I had a Torah-based foundation, I was aware of the verse that speaks about men wearing women's clothes and vice-versa. I’d like to do another color other than the three I used. It really shows your ignorance of fashion history - Ancient Egyptian, Greek, and Roman males wore skirts. Apparently, to make a law based on gender is not constitutional. It just boils down to how you feel around someone/how they make you feel, and of course what appeals to us on all the other levels. Thank you for this pattern , i have used this stitch for a hat and loved it , then tonight just a few minutes after finding out that a close friend /family to me has an aggressive form of breast cancer, Snappy tots shared a post asking if anyone has a favorite blanket pattern , and someone shared this pattern as there go to pattern, I am going to make this for my friend , and the name is perfect. I was very confused when I learned that not all fathers dressed as women like my dad did. Martie Coetser from South Africa on September 13, 2010: No thanks, Izett, I’ll pass them all. Would there just be way too much edging and tangling with six colors? Hi Sebrina, and thank you! The Version table provides details related to the release that this issue/RFE will be addressed. https://www.mooglyblog.com/improved-csdc/. FL $750K 2d 00h 43m 45s : The February Stakes. I was wondering if you could tell me what the multiples for this pattern is? Bracelets consisting of earthy materials, such as onyx, leather, and rope are all the rage for men. Twin Blanket (66″ x 90″) – 7610 yds; Ch 257; 204 Rows (85 ch-3 loops) However, i feel that i'm not entirely 100% "masculine" in a conventionally accepted sense of the word. Yes, I prefer dresses/skirts, but that doesn't mean I don't also wear jeans, but they are women's jeans & I wear a feminine blouse with them to make it clear I'm not trying to dress like a man. I think there are woman trousers and so there can be men skirts too, not that I personally wear them, although I like makeup and nail polish, and even when I don't I support it. Why can’t you make it simple and easy for people who get excited to use your patterns. I started making this in blue, white, & gray for a friend who is expecting a boy this month. moncrieff from New York, NY on September 10, 2010: Yeah I agree, I do not like men wearing skirts - that's just horrible - and I also don't like pink as color on anyone. Thanks for the comment. If you wanted a more traditional 6-8″ width, you’d want to start with Ch 26 or 29. After all it is the twenty first century, it's about time REAL men are making changes. It’s shape encourages a lighter grip. There’s a video and photo tutorial at https://www.mooglyblog.com/loopy-love-blanket-tutorial/, Thanks, Tamara! Learn how your comment data is processed. I haven’t, but I think it would work really well! Honestly, i don't mind dating a woman who isn't afraid to push gender boundaries, but i still would like her to have some "womanly" traits, because let's face it: If i wanted to date another man, I wouldn't be straight, now would i? Fortunately I think I only have to tear out two rows ( I hope!). No hair tearing! One day he surprised me by asking me to return the favor & let him borrow some of my clothes. yours look twisty, this is just chains with holes, what am i dining wrong, Hi Jamie! She wants a normal, blue coller, masculine guy. Are they really common now? This pattern SEEMS easy enough to learn! The totals are listed in the pattern. And of course will put a link back to you! One last note. I was driving south on U.S. 59, and I noticed there was what I thought was a man in the distance with an open shirt at the side of the road hitchhiking. What does “ssc in 1st st, sc 3 in each loop across” mean? I admit that not all clothes suit all body shapes, or ages, but it should only be a matter of fitting rather than expectations. It’s gonna be a gift for a little baby girl Thank you for the pattern! I’ve never made a blanket where I didn’t cut the end of each row and I’d love to try it. that is why. I love the pattern, thanks for making them and providing them for free! Perfect for a little boy I know! It isn't the end of the world even if she's beaten me at my own game (I work out 6 days a week). Is there a way to use more then three colors? or a ch-3 loop like you make all across the rows? I think one of the problem is, pretending the male fashion has to be only functional, expect as a sort of uniform and signifier and anything else has to be justified, which is depriving men of expression and ultimately of "art". With this pattern can you use the regular hooks also I put a comment on hat pattern also. VT $500K 2d 00h 13m 44s : VERMONT IS 4 LOVERS. My brother has told me he wants to have a sex change (can't afford it yet) and while deep inside I wish he wouldn't, I will always love him & yes, I would trade my brother for a sister if he really & truly feels he is a woman. Fixed: Release in which this issue/RFE has been fixed.The release containing this fix may be available for … Hi there! You gave your accidental "pink" shirt to your daughter.Made me smile. Users (IPs) This Month as of 8 a.m.: 173,252 Page Views This Month as of 8 a.m.: 3,116,125 We want…” My point in all this is, I love my brother & I'm sure you love your dad, even if he is now a she. But will we as human beings learn to embrace and encourage a person's right to self expression? Lucinda Williams as a guy. NOTE: To change colors for each row, finish the last stitch of the previous row with the new color. Here is an example of a social convention that was mercifully NOT preserved -. Now that we don't do so anymore and guys want to return to it they get judged. That's funny. Go ahead and rock the pink tee or polo. pm, Can this be made with worested weight yarn, Absolutely! The problem with pink is that it's a color simply to prove how confident you are. For this blanket, it’s much easier to count the chain 3 loops than the individual stitches – so for the “stitch count” I’ve given the number of loops instead. Basically, it's men who are more high maintenance, and fashionably aware, than most men and some women. Ch 2, sc across foundation chain, ch 2, sc evenly up other side, sc 2. I would end up with a dozen or more download programs. Hi Victoria! A smaller hook will make it more solid, if that’s what you like best. As long as they don’t expect admiration from me. All we have is pants and shorts mostly made of uncomfortable fabrics. Lizett (author) from The Great Northwest on February 26, 2011: Jeanine~ I think you know the key to woman's heart right there. Lizett (author) from The Great Northwest on July 12, 2012: Larie this was originally something I wrote perhaps a rant, but not to be taken extremely seriously. After all, men wear long hair and rings in their ears. Thanks to you too. Did you use PrintFriendly? I loved this article. They are dressing that way because of who they are, not because of a "trend". Come to think of it - years ago I and my ex-wife were driving down to Texas for the first time. Those two things brought a lot of masculinity to the outfit. The men's wardrobe doesn't contain backless and classy sleeveless (singlet wifebeaters? Used to be thirty years ago, people could wear most anything, and still be okay....Now in this over judgmental world men have to be men and women tell them what's okay...Damn, I like men in pink, skirts, and carrying a purse and with an opinion of their own. By saying that "suits on guys are better than skirts",and that "guys in skirts look hideous", he is covertly attempting to maintain a hold on patriarchal gender roles that women have fought so hard to dismantle: He's trying to keep men dressing as men, and women dressing as women, and this exposes his prejudice and hostility towards people who don't meet socio-cultural expectations of their gender. However, the comments got serious and suddenly as soon as people found out about my dad then it becomes a social issue and i'm not being politically correct. Thank you so much! If it’s one of the ch-3 loops made throughout the row, then you haven’t gone far enough I guess – I’m not sure how else that could happen? You have to be confident in yourself though and not insecure! Insist that men adhere to the severe constraints of dress. I have already done few dish cloths in Tunisian simple and knit crochet, At least men's shorts and pants don't cling to the body as much as girl's jeans. I suppose I'm accustomed to the cultural (kilts, etc) or freedom of expression (rockers) with feminine attire and otherwise. I absolutely LOVE this pattern so easy ,and it turned out great. Well, of course I assume they're checking out a girl so I don't pay much attention, but I slip a curious glance her way. Formal garments as alternatives to the ubiquitous and boring "Coat, tie, and pants" convention. However, there is the issue of price - a woman's skirt is 15 to 20 dollars each, and a sport kilt would be over $100 each. Any changes to it then? I'm rambling again, so I will stop now with a thank you for doing such a nice job & for your gracious responses to everyone's comments. Thank you so much for sharing your pattern . I’m afraid I’ve never made a Tunisian afghan myself, but I found about 150 free ones on Ravelry to check out: http://bit.ly/2bhCWvu , How do I do the edging on the Loopy Loop Baby Blanket, Hello Ruby! (40 ch-3 loops) I absolutely love everything on this site! I will try a practice swatch to see what it looks like. I hope that helps! Women made changes that redefined what what it means to be a woman, so why can't men make the same changes. JohnH2 from Rockwall, TX on September 17, 2010: When I get a job, and get some money coming in, I sure would like to get some sport kilts and a full blown dress kilt for church. There is a really thought-provoking and controversial blogger Lucy83 who said something about men growing up in a highly feminist environment, being taught to despise and be ashamed of themselves by virtue of the fact that they are men. Thanks! I haven't lost my sense of humor by golly. There is nothing worse than a man who has better legs than you and looks better in heels! I personally think it is silly. Just because a man chooses to dress conservatively does not mean he isn't an individual in his own right. kyugan is a fanfiction author that has written 36 stories for Naruto, Yu Yu Hakusho, Bleach, Flame of Recca, Sailor Moon, Love Hina, Fate/stay night, Harry Potter, Code Geass, Teknoman, Vandread, Dragon Ball Z, RWBY, JoJo's Bizarre Adventure, Anime X-overs, Hokuto No Ken, Negima! I feel though, that there is something that extends more than simply "not being attracted to crossdressing men" on your part. On the other hand it is entirely possible for a man to wear pants in a feminine context as a cross-dresser. I cannot explain why some men feel like they are really women because I am happy with the way I am & cannot imagine wanting to be a man. Row 1: With Color A, ch 122. Sounds like you’re going to be busy! Interesting Hub, can't say that I could go for men in skirts, ponytails and nail polish, but whatever floats your boat as they say. As for stitching looser, there are a few things you can try. I don't agree with that either. Resolved: Release in which this issue/RFE has been resolved. So i think i can understand your point when you say you'd like a man to make you feel like a woman; you want a man to have a good set of masculine qualities to complement your feminine qualities, and that's perfectly healthy. As far as I'm concerned, guys should not wear any article of clothing that encourages other guys to accidentally ogle and drool over them. Feminism said let's not be successful as women, but rather let's beat men at their own game and become more like them. I don’t work with a lot of dk weight yarn so maybe this is normal. And its at very end. By the way, your “helper” looks just like mine!☺️. Could this be because I am on my phone? Review some so-called "feminine" trends in men's fashion, from eyeliner to skirts to handbags. But I'm with you, no thanks, no way! That is why, most men who don’t want to be women but want to broaden their choices of styles and fabrics and have the balls to try it buy women’s clothes and are considered cross dressers. Is there a way I can just print the pattern of 4 Pages? Yet another option is try ergonomic hooks, like the Furls I use in many of my video tutorials. Modernized 16th century men's fashion was the idea in my head. Preemie/Lovie (20″ x 20″) – 515 yds; Ch 77; 45 Rows (25 ch-3 loops) My wife is not hip to me in legging either. During my trip, my numbers started to change to 10:10 or 10:01. i love so many of them. March 7, 2014 by Tamara Kelly 202 Comments. JohnH2 from Rockwall, TX on September 16, 2010: The only reason that pants took over for men is that men rode horses. I see your point about the legality and I don't care one way or the other, but if someone wants to mention all the injustice in clothing styles of man vs. women ,then I'll bring up women have restrictions too. Your email address will not be published. Instead I wrote this hub, sincerely and humorously, hoping it finds men who need a wake-up call. It was the '80s when all major rock bands wore makeup and wore their hair long. By the time I was a senior, he had outgrown my clothes, so he had stopped doing it. your patterns are gorgeous. but it sounds like your way works too, so as long as you’re happy with it, then that’s great! She explores topics on relationships, health and wellness, social issues, and lifestyle. It should open a save window for you to select a folder, name, and save the PDF. I’m a visual, hands on learner & have never been able to read written instructions, so I am truly excited to find your tutorials. I wasn't offended at all! I totally get it, but men in skirts I will never get. Lizett (author) from The Great Northwest on January 23, 2018: Fgm I'm a woman and I would be thankful to wear the comfy clothes that men have. You're right, you don't have to like it, but you also don't have to go out of your way to convince others that they shouldn't like it either. THIS FEELS GOOD. I have unzip software on my laptop already. Thank you for providing the yardage stitch version for all sizes!!!! One night I was attending a Basketball game with a couple of guy friends. Then I got still closer, and saw it was a bare breasted woman with an open shirt hitchhiking! What does CSDC mean? . I just started making hats also. I think the newly coined term of my generation, "Metrosexual", reveals the blurred lines in men and women's roles an fashion. Thanks, I think it would look lovely in just one yarn! To make them all the same and easier on me I’m instead am doing an sc at the end of each row, tiring, and then chaining three. Most men have done less styling and stressing on their hair compared to the average woman. Thank you so much for sharing this pattern, definitely my new favorite!! It was funny but true writing this and I'm glad you enjoyed. Any insight is appreciated. oh my golly! Very frustrating. Thanks. Women want equal rights, so this should extend to men as well, equality to wear what they want! But….do you have a video on doing the edging? Many of these individual are the ones who drive jacked up pickup trucks with loud exhausts, have extensive gun collections, drink heavily with their buddies, etc. I loved the way thick black eyeliner highlighted the stony blue in Bret Michael's (rock band: Poison) eyes. I made this pattern in the baby size, and that’s how the pattern is written out. As long as you wear it with class, and not to look overly feminine outwardly, it is still very manly. What a lovely pattern! You are basically implying that men who wear skirts are dangerous psychos who want to sleep with pre-pubescent children, when in fact that is no better than saying that Arab guys who wear keffiyehs are dangerous psychos who want to blow us to smitherins. If only people could see people as people, and not as representitives of their genders, our society would be much more intelligent and progressive. Robwrite~ I remember piercing my high school boyfriend's ear. Hi, this is a gorgeous pattern. It's almost like feeling sexy aesthetically or polished, has to be feminine, while depending on our style, it can combine with a beard, long or defined or being clean shaven. It doesn’t hurt to buy a little extra too – particularly of the color you want to use or the border. Cant wait to get my hands on my yarn and hook to get started!!! I consider myself heterosexual but truly like the softness and feel of wearing women's panties. This yarn has been discontinued – I recommend Bernat Softee Baby as a substitute! 2nd, I want to use just white baby yarn. sorry I mean row 1 has 40 ch3 loops and I don’t see how row 2 ends up with 39 ch3 loops, Because the last loop you make in Row 2 is just a ch-2 loop. One of my niece s suggest ed that I start selling the things I make. By using 3 colors, you’ll be able to carry the yarn up the sides, without breaking them – the floats will be covered by the edging. I see many women afraid to be women as well. ..brave daring hub you have put together in a very entertaining fashion .....maybe some of the so-called men here at the pages of Hub will turn the other cheek and take heed from your sound advice of the alternative persuasion! Sorry! I love this pattern and plan on making it (and the hat) for a friend. Plus it’s working up pretty quick so far too. Peg. If you want to use 5 or 7, I would just expect to cut them every few repeats and untangle then. I do however agree with you that men wearing women's clothes just to "conform with nonconformity" is not the way to go. There is a “printer friendly” button at the very bottom of the description. One more thing: I know some guys have posted that they are happy with being a man & wearing skirts, too. This is just the kind of pattern I was looking for. So I do not attempt to pass as a woman. I only had 2 colors of yarn, so I’m working it 2 rows by 2 rows. Hi there! Silent reed~ don't you know, we can go into your closet but you can't go into ours. Martie~ Well it just shows men can get away with anything because their odds of fidning a woman is still high. Thanks for sharing! (la misura che vorrei realizzare è 1mx1.10) aspetto risposta e ringrazio!!!!!!!!!! Thank you so much Jamie!! Any suggestions for keeping the three yarns separate? I’m so glad to hear it! My friends were checking out a DUDE and believed they were checking out a girl before he turned around. You can also try altering your grip on the hook – for instance, if you are a knife holder, try the pencil hold. I’ll be thinking of your friend. Just found out my sister is expecting and I want to crochet the mini-her a blanket. I think it was when I wanted to look nice for a boyfriend in school that I mainly took more interest in wearing dresses & skirts. Buy black and black is good too on night out on the town. size plastic bag and zip most of each bag shut. It just doesn’t seem to be here anywhere. For the record, I DO NOT think skirts look right on guys, but I was a good sister & told him he looked handsome anyway (it wasn't a lie, it's just I think he looks better in trousers). It's only in recent history that men in the west stopped wearing the skirt in favor of pants. I was born in the 1950's with societies rigid thought's on gendered clothing. https://www.mooglyblog.com/foundation-single-crochet-fsc/. DK yarn with a size 5.5mm hook? I'm not paricularly attracted to feminine men. Thanks for your comment. I’m so glad you enjoyed it Julie! izettl - there is an obvious reason for wearing a bra of course - support of the breasts. I enjoyed reading not only your hub but also all the other comments. Nothing wrong with showing yourself off in fitted clothes if you work hard at the gym. I love this simple but lovely blanket! Your dad may well be a victim of this trend. But, once I watched the tutorial I was hooked Man-skirts, not kilts, but actual skirts can be made to appear more masculine. It is almost definitely a phone issue – printing from a phone usually requires a special app on the individual’s phone, as far as I know. She was bent over, reaching for something in her car, wearing I-can't-believe-she-can-still-breathe tight jeans. Let them be whatever they want to be. Look for the green Print Friendly button at the bottom of the post. I've never seen men with painted toe nails. I can’t wait to make it for my friend, Penny’s new baby boy!! Lizett (author) from The Great Northwest on July 16, 2012: me, I love good ol fashoined (guys) jeans and a plain white T-shirt on a guy. There’s an edging video at https://www.mooglyblog.com/working-into-the-edge/ . Hi Jenny! Lizett (author) from The Great Northwest on September 23, 2010: Silvergenes~ thank you for taking the time to read this...and the comments. Not that they can change a diaper but that they are losing or imitating their identity. I do not attempt to pass as a woman. I’m making it now in pink, white and gray. That was mercifully overturned. I do not have myself waxed but I do shave my arms, legs, and chest. Thanks! How would I need to alter the pattern for this? I hope I am as good of a Croucher as my niece thinks I am lol. Red Heart Anne Geddes Baby Yarn (DK/Light “3”) – see below for yardage That was thoughtless on my part. I have looked everywhere for the green print button on the first page the talks about the pattern and on the page that actually has the pattern. The Big Parade The Big Picture The Big Short The Big Sick The Big Sleep Big Sur: Wild California ... A Fan's Hope Coming Home (1978) Coming Home The Coming Of Sin Coming To America Commando (Director's Cut) Commitment The Company (2007) ... Dolores Claiborne Dolphin Tale Dolphin Tale (3D Version) If you are using 3 colors, you’ll want to buy 1/3 in each color. Also, being waxed just isn't my thing on guys. Baby Blanket (Shown, 32″ x 36″) – 900 yds; Ch 122;  78 Rows (40 ch-3 loops) I want people to be who they are, just like you do, and not because of some silly trend. It was an interesting conversation in the comment section and we all come from different backgrounds so we have different viewpoints. Along the sides, it’s about what works best with your gauge – it will be different for different people. . I was looking for a very special afghan pattern as we are expecting our first great grandchild. Oh it was funny with my guy friends checking out the guy bent over. Thank you for letting me know! My opinion is it's not a good trend, but rather just for individual. PS: I like the pink t-shirt. I’m sorry you’re having trouble! I’m so glad the video helped! I don't wish that on anyone. love this and am going to try from written directions but the video would not download for the instructions new to this and videos make leaning alot easier will let you know howit goes lol. . JohnH2 from Rockwall, TX on September 27, 2010: "I find that many guys have stronger opinions on this than I do- at least ones I know. Hi Tamara! This is a lovely pattern with lovely colorsI Your work is consistently perfect. They are only clothes (and make up).The problem lies with those who criticise it! Hi. They live in another state. I think the foundation single crochet might suit this pattern a bit better (unless you’re speaking in UK terms, in which case yes). That fantastic! Lots but we don't go no sorry this is for men, stop trying to be a man, because that's sexist, this is no different. That’s what I used – you can use whatever hook size gives you the fabric look you like! As a man, you can be an individual in a pair of 3 inch heels and a halterneck top, as much as you can be an individual in a conservative 3 piece business shirt and slacks. I have nothing against women wearing pants - I'm glad they won that right. It looks just as great in solids! And in 3 colors, you can change colors every row and never have to cut the yarn! Do I make 3 sc in each loop going back across the top? Thank you so much Alaine! I find that many guys have stronger opinions on this than I do- at least ones I know. athleticism (i'm a thai boxer), cockiness, muscles, loud and brash manner of speech, and extreme straightforwardness. If it's truly what an individual wants to do then great. Does it make a difference in how the pattern is worked on the ends of each row? If you look at the Sizes chart in the pattern, each size lists a yardage estimate. As myself nowadays, I feel very comfortable and confident wearing a pink dress shirt or polo. I guess I'm old fashioned but I just don't like the girlie style on men. Now we need to convince certain narrow-minded individuals to accept men wearing skirts and dresses as men and not as cross-dressers trying to pass as women. tops as well; i find it men's tops to be far to rigid and conservative for my bold and outlandish taste. I just like manly fashion, just my preference. This blanket is so cute and thank goodness for your video! I love the way this is looking! can i carry the yarn up the sides if i do it with 4 colors? I’ll edit. Im going to go out and get a stash with matching bras and liberate myself. He was young so I didn't want to crush his ego. Hello! Mean while women are allowed to wear a much wider spectrum of clothing with little or no repercussions. Like how much would I chain to make a blanket the size of those $3 fleece ones you get at Walmart and such? I always love your patterns . There should be an option to print or save as a PDF. The pattern is very easy but I don’t understand the directions at the end of row two. Deserves to be voted up. Furthermore, men's shorts don't cling around the thigh and accentuate an individual's butt the way women's shorts can. Hmmm. I used to hang out with bodybuilders who are quite waxed out to the max so I'm not accustomed to, or fond of overly hairy, beastly guys.